Groom's Checklist
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12 months before
- Determine budget contribution, including any gifts from parents, family, friends, etc.
- Choose attendants (Best Man, Groomsmen, Ushers, Ring Bearer) and invite themto be in the wedding
7 to 9 months before
- Reserve rehearsal dinner location
- Compile your friend/family guest list
4 to 6 months before
- Reserve mens' formal wear
2 to 3 months before
- Purchase meaningful gift for bride
- Purchase gifts for your attendants and parents
- Decide on rehearsal and rehearsal dinner attire
- Order rehearsal dinner invitations
- Choose song for mother/groom dance
6 to 8 weeks before
- Confirm formal wear measurements
- Confirm rehearsal dinner menu
1 month before
- Send rehearsal dinner invitations
- Take care of business and legal affairs (inform car, home, renter's insurance of marriage. Change beneficiary to fiancée for will and life insurance policy)
- Attend bachelor party and any couple's showers
2 to 3 weeks before
- Make appointments for hair, manicure, other grooming
- Create wedding day schedule
1 week before
- Confirm rehearsal dinner plans
- Pack for honeymoon
- Prepare speech and toast for reception
- Write your vows
- Order flowers to be delivered to bride, mother and mother-in-law on wedding morning
1 to 2 days before
The Wedding Day
- Give wedding rings and officiant's fee to best man
- Give license to officiant
- Give gift to bride
- Relax and let it all sink in!